i’d like to apologize for all those friends who i used to talk to and now barely do
why can’t plane tickets be like 10 dollars
If you two haven’t met yet in person then you should do so as soon as you can. Make a plan, make time, put in the effort. A relationship with strong emotions isn’t something you want to invest yourself into fully until you’ve met up and you know that they are the same person to you as they were online. Tiny things can ruin how two people get along, and spending a weekend with some people can be wonderful, and with others you may be so annoyed you never want to see them again. It’s unfortunate, but it’s a possibility, and it’s important to know… and if it turns out well, then you’ve just spend a weekend with a person you adore.
I manage long distance with boundless positivity and love.
Having a date set to go see one another again helps a lot, it’s something to look forward to every day (one day closer), but even without it, I remind myself that I’ll see him as soon as I can. Talking all the time helps too.
Aside from that, it just helps to know that it’s worth it.
Once you’re invested as much as I am, you know that what you have with this other person is worth it. If they didn’t matter, it wouldn’t hurt. If you weren’t so incredibly happy when they’re around, then it wouldn’t be so painful to miss them, their touch, their kiss… That happiness is worth it to me.
My significant other is my best friend.
The person I want to talk to when i’m excited or when I’m sad.
The one that makes me smile the most, and cry the most, because they matter the most.
The one I wanna tell everything.
The one I want to be a part of my life forever.
The one who’s hopes and dreams and prides I care about as much as my own, because their happiness is my happiness, and what’s important to them is important to me.
Never have I felt this much care for anyone else.
I didn’t know it was possible to love like this.
So if that’s not worth holding onto through distance, then I don’t know what is. I’ll put up with the pain until I can be close to him without the looming dread of a return flight “home”.
So go see your significant other and see how you two mesh, because if you end up feeling about one another like I do about Alex, then the distance won’t keep you apart… not really. <3